“William and Catherine Gladstone lived together for fifty-nine years, almost three score years glorified with an abiding devotion. ….
Gladstone, a formidable enemy in public, never criticized at home.
When he came down to breakfast in the morning, only to discover that the rest of his family was still sleeping, he had a gentle way of registering his reproach. He raised his voice and filled the house with a mysterious chant that reminded the other members that England’s busiest man was waiting downstairs for his breakfast, all alone.
Diplomatic, considerate, he rigorously refrained from domestic criticism.
And so, often, did Catherine the Great. Catherine ruled one of the largest empires the world has ever known. Over millions of her subjects she held the power of life and death. Politically, she was often a cruel tyrant, waging useless wars and sentencing scores of her enemies to be cut down by firing squads. Yet if the cook burned the meat, she said nothing. She smiled and ate it with a tolerance that the average American husband would do well to emulate.
Dorothy Dix, America’s premier authority on the causes of marital unhappiness, declares that more than fifty per cent of all marriages are failures; and she knows that one of the reasons why so many romantic dreams break up on the rocks of Reno is criticism-futile, heartbreaking criticism.
So, if you want to keep your home life happy, remember: Don’t criticize.”
(c) Dale Carnegie quoted material. Balance of copyright (c) Brandon L. Blankenship Alabama Birmingham Hoover Pelham